Whew has it been a crazy year since we tied the knot- do you even remember me? I’ve gotten a emails this week from two of my favorite readers (mmWAH) asking where the heck I’ve been.
Great question! You know, while we were engaged, I thought that life would calm down to a less hectic pace once we got married. All the dust would settle and all those hours we spent writing our ceremony and tying ribbons would be freed up to do other things.
Well.
Lesson learned: life doesn’t slow down. You just get busier with other things. At any rate, I will say this- these past months, this past year, has given me an entirely different perspective on our wedding. When you’re engaged, you look towards the wedding day as the start, the beginning. After you’re married, you look back on your wedding day and remember all the feelings and the little moments that made the day what it was. Really, that’s what a wedding is about- setting the stage for a marriage, having a defined moment in time when you looked each other in the eye in front of everyone whose opinions matter to you, and declare before God that I am his and he is mine.
One other thing- while I was engaged, people told me all the time to enjoy things now because everything goes downhill after you’re married. Now, obviously we’ve only been doing this marriage thing for 16 months, but so far? Nothing could be further from the truth. We didn’t have the smoothest engagement but the marriage? Guys, so far- it’s rocked.
So recaps. Here we go!
To start it off, here is the post that I wrote on my blog shortly after our wedding:
We planned our wedding for 18 months. The day itself seemed very short.
We planned every little detail. The day of, we couldn’t have cared less if everything was perfect.
We thought about the wedding for 18 months. Since the honeymoon, it’s as if the wedding was a long time ago, a beautiful wonderful moment that flew past us and set us on a path to a life that we are busy living.
So how do I write about a wedding?
Do I tell you about the moments that still make me tear up? Do I tell you about the laughter that threatened to ruin my makeup? Do I tell you only about the good or do I share the bad?
All these words. A picture is worth a thousand of them. Maybe I should just start there. These are the photos that sum up best what I experienced on my wedding day. Taken during the ceremony, I think you’ll understand through these photos what my words can’t explain.

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