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 Tips for Getting Married in Malta
What really impressed us the most about Malta was how set up they are for weddings. Weddings are big business in Malta, with the Maltese weddings averaging 400+ guests. Of course, most destinations weddings won’t necessarily be as big as that, but there are so many different options, no matter if it’s just the two of you, or everyone you know.

Malta is wedding island, and the best way to get value for money is to go for a wedding package, which will include your venue, accommodation and your choice of wedding suppliers like luxury cars, professional photographers, florists and more. It’s only a few hours away, everyone speaks English, there is a lot to do on the island and it’s great value for money. Everything you need for the best destination wedding, in fact – I can’t believe we didn’t think of it for our own wedding.

We toured some of the best 5 star hotels, villas and unusual wedding venues on our trip, so check out our video review and be inspired!

Wedding options

Of course, it’s Malta so you can take advantage of the sun and have a Mediterranean style beach wedding, but don’t stop there, there’s so much more you can do too.

The Grand Hotel Excelsior is a stunning 5-star hotel situated adjacent to the magnificent sixteenth-century bastions of Valletta. The outdoor terrace in particular is extremely popular for spectacular weddings and receptions, and the pool complex is gorgeous.

Hotel Phoenicia is a classically beautiful hotel founded in 1947. Frequented by stars, socialites and the crowned heads of Europe and boasting a large and romantic garden, this hotel is a beautiful place for a wedding.

The Hilton overlooks the fashionable Portomaso waterfront, and offers a unique underground entrance for a dramatic arrival by boat. It’s a beautifully versatile hotel with stunning restaurants, 4 outdoor pools, a grand ballroom and the Quarterdeck bar terrace.

Another unique option is to rent one of Malta’s many private villas for an intimate and exclusive gathering. Villa Arrigo is a stunning private property with beautiful dining rooms, outdoor gardens with olive trees and hanging lights.

We also recommend the gorgeous Corinthia and Radisson Blu hotels in St Julian’s Bay, and we visited some Catholic church options too, so check out our recent reviews.

Make your wedding dreams come true in Malta, and if you’re still not convinced you can, we’ve got some bonus footage of our magical week in Malta! See video on the original post.

September 2, 2010 by TheHoneymoonTesters | Filed under: Entertainment,Travel & Honeymoon | 0 Comments
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 Great Craic Aboard the Paddy Wagon

I have to admit, I was sceptical about this tour with the world famous tour group, Paddy Wagon. After almost seven weeks of touring luxury hotels around the world, how would I cope with the real world and…youth hostels!?

In fact, on our way to the airport a week ago for our Malta trip, we actually stopped at a red light in front of the Paddy’s Palace youth hostel and I said to Mark, “Remember, when we used to stay at hostels? Those were the days…!”.

When our boss told us that we’d be joining a 3-day coach and hostel trip with 50 others on a Paddy Wagon tour, I was a little daunted. However, the idea of getting to see more of Ireland and meeting some other people was pretty cool so we were well up for the challenge!

Blarney Castle

Well, I have to say that I’m completely won over. We had a fantastic time and in these recession times, it would be a very cost-effective and really fun holiday for the cash-strapped bride and groom. Definitely a honeymoon with a difference, but if you’ve ever wanted to see more of Ireland, then I can highly recommend it!

We joined the Ring of Kerry tour, a very popular tour visiting Blarney Castle (yes, we kissed the Blarney stone!), Limerick city, Slead Head/Dingle Peninsula, the Cliffs of Moher, Killarney National Park (with an amazing horse drawn tour of the park) and many cute little towns along the way for real Irish hospitality.

The very last tour is the Guinness factory tour, complete with a free pint of Guinness. It’s one of the best designed museums I’ve ever seen, really fascinating seeing the story behind this Irish success story.

The scenery along the way was simply stunning – the best of the “Emerald Isle”, incredibly beautiful mountains, cliffs, farms, parks, ruins, churches and quaint fishing villages. There were plenty of stops for photo ops too.

A beautiful Irish Day!

There are many other tours to choose from, from 1-day Dublin tours, to 3, 6 and 10 tours all over Ireland. There’s even a Christmas tour!

There’s some great extras as well – breakfast is included every morning, all entrances to the parks and other attractions, free wifi at the hostels and a free shuttle bus to and from the airport (14 daily departures).

The buses are immaculate, brand new Mercedes coaches painted a bright green with leprechauns all over them (very hard to miss!). The tour itself is fantastic – complete with a knowledgeable and charming Irish tour guide to really bring the tour to life.

The great thing about being thrown on to a bus with a group of new people looking to have fun is that everyone is up for the “craic”. Jokes, banter and songs keep the bus drives entertaining and anything can happen on the Guinness fuelled nights. Karaoke at the Randy Leprechaun Hostel near Dingle was a lot of fun, surprisingly there were some pretty good voices on show from the travellers and even a couple of locals. If you are up for it you can of course socialise into the small hours, the Irish are wonderfully charming, funny and welcoming, but unlike some tours the partying is not compulsory but definitely builds great camaraderie.

Paddy's Palace in Killarney

The hostels are what you’d expect, youth hostels are pretty much the same the world over. You can opt for a shared room to really get to know others, but if you’re feeling flush, spring for a private room and bath, or better yet upgrade to the luxury B&B option. We had the middle option – a private hostel room. The tour is exactly the same for each level of accommodation, and you still join the group for all of the entertainment. The only difference is that you sleep in a different venue, which will be really close to the hostel but might not be as noisy at night.

We even renewed our vows three times during the trip: at the Cliffs of Moher, at the Lough Inn in Killarney and at the Paddy’s Palace in Dingle. We also christened the new building next door with a bottle of champagne! Our great guide “Fitzy” and everyone on the bus really participated in our vows making them a lot of fun and very memorable.

If you are on a budget, then it would be a fabulous and fun way to celebrate with a lot of relaxed and travel-minded people. We met a huge variety, from Sam – the second year nuclear physics student from Arkansas, a gang of late twenty-somethings from Canada, a whole bunch of Aussies on their way to live in London and plenty of other interesting people of all ages from all around the world, even families and 50 somethings.

Thanks to the team at Paddy Wagon for taking such good care of us, giving us such a good time and always giving us the “honeymoon suite” along the way!

Wanna see me dancing like a leprechaun? Watch this video till the end…

Check back in on Thursday!
August 31, 2010 by TheHoneymoonTesters | Filed under: Travel & Honeymoon | 0 Comments
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Beach Bride

After a long debate that may have been harder than any one piece of the wedding planning process, in which ideas from Europe to Mexico were tossed aside, my husband and I decided to honeymoon in Aruba. I think we made a perfect decision. I’ve now been back to reality for 2 weeks, and it has been one of the hardest transitions I’ve ever had to make!

There is so much to share about my trip, and also hopefully as a resource for future honeymooners, that I’ll break my recap up into a series of posts. This first one will focus on what we focused on most during the honeymoon… the food!

When planning the honeymoon, one of the questions we had a hard time answering was whether or not it was worth it to go to an all-inclusive resort. We priced out options both ways, and finally came to the conclusion that we would rather “rough it” in Aruba so we could go explore places all around the island, and not just what our hotel had to offer, without racking up huge charges. To anyone considering a trip to Aruba in the future: I highly recommend you do what we did. There are so many AMAZING places to eat around the island; you would really be missing out by sticking to the dining at your own resort.

The dining was one of the only elements of our trip that we really planned out when we first arrived at the hotel. We made reservations with the concierge for each of the places that had been recommended to us or that we had read about and wanted to try. Ranging from “authentic island cuisine” at Papiamento to grilled specialties at Pinchos, we had so many great meals I can’t even begin to describe all of them.

This post is going to focus on our favorite dinner, which is also a staple of any island honeymoon, the right-on-the-beach dining experience. There were several to choose from in Aruba, but based on a recommendation from our friends who also honeymooned in Aruba, we chose Passions at the Amsterdam hotel.

The first thing that was striking about Passions was the atmosphere. Between the striking effect of the sun setting over the water, and the beautiful straw umbrellas lined with sparkling white lights, it was one of the most gorgeous and romantic places I’ve ever seen. It just felt magical right as we stepped out of the cab.

Passions Aruba

Of course, I would never judge a restaurant solely on its atmosphere… and luckily, Passions held up to my first impression and did not disappoint in any other way. The food and the service were both amazing. And an added perk: to maintain the amazing romantic atmosphere and not ruin it with too much lighting, the menus lit up when you opened them so you could still read them! That was a big perk for my husband, who really likes shiny things. But I have to admit, I really enjoyed it too.

Passions Aruba

To top off an amazing meal, when we got the dessert menu we noticed that there was something called a “sparkling surprise” romantic dessert for two. It sounded way too fun to pass up, so we gave it a shot…

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August 27, 2010 by Beach Bride | Filed under: Travel & Honeymoon,Wedding Etiquette & Advice | 1 Comment
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Malta

Our first couple of days in Malta have been absolutely amazing and the hottest weather on our “honeymoon” so far.

We’re staying at the stunning Corinthia Hotel in St George’s Bay, coincidentally right opposite to where I stayed in 2000 on my first trip to Malta. The hotel is lovely, right on the bay and you can jump into the ocean from the rocks. The view from our room is spectacular, we’re actually blinded in the morning from the sun coming up over the crystal blue sea.

I can see why people want to come to Malta for their wedding and honeymoon, it’s really cost effective, the food is great, everyone speaks English and the weather is incredible!

Our time in Valletta

Geographically, Malta is a tiny island. It’s just over 300 km, which is so small! However, what Malta lacks in land mass, it makes up for in culture and beauty per square metre.

There are so many beautiful towns to explore, each with it’s own unique flavour. Blue sky and friendly people are constants, so you just have to find the place you like the best. It’s easy to get around. Cabs are relatively cheap, but the buses are absolute recession busters, it will cost you less than 50 cents for a trip.

First up, Valletta, the capital city of Malta, and one of the most beautiful towns ever. The whole city is surrounded by high bastions which are lit up at night, making everything look unbelievably magical. It was built as a fortress city, but there’s nothing severe or military about it.

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August 26, 2010 by TheHoneymoonTesters | Filed under: Entertainment,Travel & Honeymoon | 0 Comments
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Magical Jordan

We arrived in Jordan last night (thanks to BMI) and headed straight out for dinner in a local restaurant for hummus, tabbouleh and other traditional delights. We just couldn’t believe we were in Jordan! I actually love arriving at night, because the city is so mysterious until the morning, and then we can wake up, open the curtains and see what’s in store.

I’m still stunned by our visit today to the ancient Greco-Roman ruins in Jerash, a city of the Decapolis (the ten Roman cities in the area). Mark and I agree, it’s one of the most beautiful man-made sights we’ve ever seen.

Our guide Mustafa was a fantastic tour guide drawing on over 25 years at the site and his whole life growing up in Jerash and seeing the ancient city unearthed a little more by excavation every year. He was more like a fascinating professor of history and archeology than a guide. He led us around the vast site for about 90 minutes telling us the secrets of the ruins and how the ancient city, market and temple would have been for traders passing along the caravan route from the Mediterranean to Saudi Arabia.

When we arrived the air was filled with calls to prayer from the local mosques and the sun shone brightly on the hundreds of limestone columns and walls. There’s so much to see and the incredible history and awe inspiring beauty make Jerash a unmissable honeymoon day out.

We entered the city through Hadrian’s Arch, one of the six gates build to commemorate the visit of Emperor Hadrian in 129AD, and just gaped at the city that is slowly revealing itself out of the ground.

The ampitheatres were my favourite because you really get a sense of the past. It’s so beautifully preserved that you can imagine yourself sitting there for a play or a music concert, just as they did 2000 years ago. The acoustics are unbelievable too.

The whole city has many treasures, the old Christian church has an almost perfectly preserved mosaic floor, and the temple dedicated to Artemis is slowly being restored but you can still see the rivets on the walls that held the marble internal facade in place.

You leave the city by walking down the 800 metre long main market street lined with over 250 limestone columns. It does not take much to imagine how the bustling city would have felt – the energy, noise and smells of spices, olives and tobacco. We both leave wondering why modern cities and buildings have lost Jerash’s sense of beauty and awe. After all, what are we creating these days that tourists will marvel at in thousands of years to come?

We left the Grand Hyatt after breakfast (which was extremely good – one of the best so far) and travelled to Madaba, the ‘City of Mosaics’, about one hour south of Amman. The Orthodox Church of Saint George in Madaba is home to the earliest map of the Holy Land in existence and shows the area that is now Jordan, Israel and Egypt. The map covers the floor of the church and is made of over two million tiny mosaic tiles. Visiting the local mosaic workshop after the church made me realise the dedication and skill invested in these pieces of art making the floor even more impressive, given that it’s 1,500 years old.

The Wadi Mujib

We then drove West from Madaba the short journey to Mount Nebo, which according to the Bible was the final resting place of Moses on his journey from Egypt to The Holy Land. Although the basilica on top of the mount was being refurbished we were again able to see more incredibly intricate and beautiful mosaics and The Serpentine Cross from where the Pope marked the new millennium in 2000. From Mount Nebo it is possible to see the Jordan River and Israel across the arid and dusty Jordan Valley.

The road from Madaba to Petra then passes through the Wadi Mujib, also known as Jordan’s Grand Canyon. With a gigantic, azure blue man-made reservoir at one end and the Dead Sea at the other, the Wadi Mujib is a gorge carved deep into Jordan’s mountains from Madaba to Kerak. The view from the winding dusty road is stunning and intimidating. The dry cliffs are sheer and relentless – we have already seen such massive differences and extremes in the terrain we have seen so far and there is still beach and desert to come.

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August 24, 2010 by TheHoneymoonTesters | Filed under: Travel & Honeymoon | 1 Comment
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Johnstone Castle

When the silver turrets of Johnstown Castle come into view, you can’t help but gasp – it’s a wonderfully Gothic, perfectly proportioned castle and the perfect venue for a fairytale wedding.

The delights continue with a wonderfully gothic front door and dramatic hallway flanked by windows which can be lit by candles to completely wow your wedding guests.

Guests will walk through a three story chamber with a sparkling chandelier, into the ceremony room which features windows looking out over the grounds, a fireplace and a stunning ceiling. We performed a hand fasting ceremony in this room and it’s an incredibly romantic backdrop.

The photo opportunities after the ceremony are endless. On either side of the castle are two fountains. The picturesque ornamental gardens feature a beautiful still lake surrounded by peacocks, swans and stunning flowered trees. Discover the many statues on the way to the turreted Gothic tower for a romantic Juliet inspired photo shoot.

Built for the Grogan-Morgan family between 1810 and 1855, the Victorian revival castle has some beautifully restored rooms which can be used for romantic and elegant civil ceremonies. Visiting this castle made me wish I could win the lottery, so I could live in and restore the rest of the rooms. There’s something so special about this place that I didn’t want to leave.

I know that any couple visiting the Castle as a potential wedding location would have the same reaction as we did and be thrilled to get married in such a historical place.

To see Johnstown Castle for yourself, contact www.weddingplanner.ie, and follow our daily blog at www.thehoneymoontesters.com

Video: Johnstown Castle

August 19, 2010 by TheHoneymoonTesters | Filed under: Ceremony and Vows,Travel & Honeymoon | 0 Comments
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Geek Bride

When it comes to the wedding, I care about a great many things.  I care about my dress, and the hog roast, and the invitations, and the honeymoon, and even the favours (although I’m having a massive headache over them).  But there are some things that I honestly don’t give a damn about: the cake, the centrepieces, the chocolate fountain, the decorations, the wedding video, and the band.

So when I asked Geek Groom what sort of cake he wanted, and he responded with “whatever you want”… it wasn’t pretty.

I’m terrible at making decisions about stuff I DO care about!  Seriously, I’ll spend ten minutes hovering in the shop trying to decide between a Lion bar or a packet of wine gums!  He always makes the decisions about things, and now I’m having to decide on everything about this wedding, even the stuff I don’t give a [very bad word] about!

After I told GG all of this (with sobs, sniffles and occassional hiccups), he completely disarmed me with logic.
“Well, why don’t you just make a list of all the stuff you don’t want to do, and I’ll do it?”
That never occured to me, because I am an irrational crazypants.  Fortunately I’m marrying a man who will give me a hug and pat me on the head, before giving me a solution to the problem I was getting so worked up about in the first place.  What a team!

So I’m making the list (cheerfully titled ‘Things Laura Doesn’t Give A [very bad word again, sorry] About So Scott Will Do Them’) because I may suck at decisions, but I totally rock at lists.  And the moral of this is, play to your strengths, work as a team, and be thankful that your partner loves you even when you go a little insane :D

(PS:-  Sorry about the overly melodramatic title, but it was all I could think of!)

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Our 17th wedding vow renewal was performed by one of the Irish Tenors, the talented Ciaran Nagle. Apart from serenading us with some stunning opera, he also gave us a Dr. Seuss inspired wedding renewal in the gardens of the Fitzpatrick Castle Hotel in Ireland.

(Sorry no idea who adapted these words originally)

Ciaran: Will you answer me right now
These questions, as your wedding vow?

Mark: Yes, I will answer right now
Your questions as my wedding vow.

Ciaran: Will you take her as your wife?
Will you love her all your life?

Mark: Yes, I take her as my wife,
Yes, I’ll love her all my life.

Ciaran: Will you have, and also hold
Just as you have at this time told?

Mark: Yes, I will have, and I will hold,
Just as I have at this time told,
Yes, I will love her all my life
As I now take her as my wife.

Ciaran: Will you love through good and bad?
Whether you’re happy or sad?

Mark: Yes, I’ll love through good and bad,
Whether we’re happy or sad,
Yes, I will have and I will hold
Just as I have already told,
Yes, I will love her all my life,
Yes, I will take her as my wife!

Ciaran: Will you love her if you’re rich?
Or if you’re poor, and in a ditch?

Mark: Yes, I’ll love her if we’re rich,
And I will love her in a ditch,
I’ll love her through good times and bad,
Whether we are happy or sad,
Yes, I will have, and I will hold
(I could have sworn this has been told!)
I promise to love all my life
This woman, as my lawful wife!

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August 17, 2010 by TheHoneymoonTesters | Filed under: Ceremony and Vows,Travel & Honeymoon | 2 Comments
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BrideFlu

The rehearsal dinner is a very controversial subject. A lot of people believe that only the immediate family and the wedding party need be included. However, after not getting invited to my friend’s rehearsal dinner last weekend, I have a new rule. So listen up, Emily Post:

ANY GUEST WHO HAD TO FLY OR DRIVE OVER 4 HOURS TO ATTEND YOUR WEDDING SHOULD ALSO BE INVTED TO THE REHEARSAL DINNER.

Here’s why. Let me break down our travel expenses:

Plane tickets from LAX to Charlotte: $644 X 2 = $1288
Checking two bags each way: $100
Hotel two nights: $230
Rental car split with friend: Approximately $100
Cab ride to and from airport and home: $180

In other words, it cost us about $1900 to attend my friend’s wedding, and that doesn’t include the little extras like water, food at the airport, etc.

Fortunately, her nuptials coincided perfectly with being able to visit my mother’s family, who happen to reside two hours north of Charlotte. So I was able to make it into a productive trip. However, if I had to spend that much money just to attend a 20 minute ceremony and a 3 hour reception, I really would have thought twice about going, as much as I love my friend.

My point is, it’s REALLY expensive to travel these days. You had better let your guests know how grateful you are that they made the effort to be there. Because even if you’re not planning a destination wedding, most likely at least a few of your guests will be coming from out of town.

Let me be clear here. I’m not complaining about missing out on a free meal.

The truth is, when I think about the weddings I’ve attended in the past few years, being at the rehearsal dinner is what made the event feel like a special weekend. I love seeing the photographs and the home movies of the bride and groom growing up. I love hearing stories and speeches and taking those once-in-a-lifetime trips down memory lane. To me, the rehearsal dinners can be more personal, romantic and memorable than the wedding itself.

That’s the part I was really sad to miss out on at my friend’s wedding last weekend.

I know some people are going to disagree with me. Go ahead and tell me what you think!

August 16, 2010 by BrideFlu | Filed under: All the rest,Travel & Honeymoon,Wedding Etiquette & Advice | 7 Comments
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 Eye do, on the London Eye

The London Eye (or Millennium Wheel) is unmissable in the London skyline, a giant 135-metre (443 ft) tall Ferris wheel on the banks of the River Thames which overlooks some of the most famous London landmarks, including Big Ben and Parliament House.

Built in 1999, the wheel has 32 pods which can take up to 25 passengers each. It takes about 30 minutes to rotate completely and in that time you get to see the most unique and beautiful views over London. On a clear day (which we were lucky to have), you can see up to 40kms away all the way to Windsor Castle. I’ve lived in London for eight years and I’ve never seen this perspective before – absolutely amazing.

 Eye do, on the London Eye

Inside the London Eye

We conducted our 15th wedding renewal in a private pod with 6 friends as witnesses. We spent the first ten minutes admiring the scenery, then our good friend Carey Benn performed the ceremony. The final descent was spent identifying the landmarks all over the city. It’s funny how your perception of where things are in London are completely different to the reality!

The only bad thing about being inside the Eye is that you cannot take photos with the Eye in the background, it’s literally such an iconic landmark in London now.

Don’t forget to smile as you can get a picture taken in the last five minutes which you can purchase at the end. It’s well worth a trip next time you’re in London – with over 3.5 million people visiting every year, it’s London’s most popular paid tourist attraction.

Afterwards, take a walk along the South Bank, get an icecream or just soak in the atmosphere of London. There’s so much to do and see here and the London Eye is right in the heart of it.

It’s easy (and surprisingly cost effective) to hire a private pod for up to 25 people, and is a fun thing to do as a group. Contact the London Eye for more information.

Thank you to the Merlin Entertainments London Eye team for providing us with the pod, Carey for the ceremony and Blanka, Mollie, David, Mazzie and Christina for being the witnesses.

You can follow our adventure every Tuesday and Thursday here on Blogger Brides!

Mollie, Christina and Blanka Denise, Carey and Mark

August 12, 2010 by TheHoneymoonTesters | Filed under: Ceremony and Vows,Travel & Honeymoon | 1 Comment
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