Born to be Mrs. Beever

I’m not gonna say much in today’s post.  Honestly, I have had some major stressful things happening at work lately.  I don’t want to go into all of it but it means I haven’t been able to spend much time on the net browsing through all of your lovely blogs I follow.  Don’t dismay – I am totally still here!  Those of you who have noticed I haven’t been commenting much lately, please know that I will be back over there to more thoroughly digest archived posts and catch up as soon as things are resolved here in the office :)

Thankfully, I schedule most of my posts months in advance so I have still been going regularly over here.  And I can honestly say that the wedding recaps will finally be ending this month!  Five months after the wedding, I will be wrapping it up with a few more pics and videos to share with all of you as I finalize my memories of our big day.  Thanks for hangin’ in there with me.

Today, I wanted to share this cool little recap video that our videographer included in our wedding video (note that the song is not the song used in our wedding video, I had to change it due to YouTube copyrights).  It is a recap of the cocktail hour but I love it because it shows a few of the little details of our event, specifically the reception tables.  So after the video, I’ll share a bunch of photos as well:

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One of the two door hangers that my sister made for our day:

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September 2, 2010 by Born to be Mrs. Beever | Filed under: Floral & Decor | 0 Comments
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Bicoastal_Bride

In my long string of examples showing just how awesome our photographer Alex was, there’s one that truly stands out for me.

You may recall that I was completely bummed when I discovered that the church wouldn’t allow flower petals to line the aisle or be thrown by guests after the ceremony. There went one of my top romantic visions for our day.

Or so I thought.

As it turns out, I underestimated Alex’s creativity and foresight. Try if you can to imagine my sheer and utter delight when he showed up on our wedding day toting – what else? – a bag of flower petals!

Granted, these were silk, and there weren’t as many as I’d have brought in had I been allowed to go all out. But I didn’t care! They were petals nonetheless, were there on my wedding day, and had a light pink shade that even matched up with some of the accent colors in my bouquet. Life was good, and I loved the way Alex worked them in throughout the celebration.

My favorite part? He managed to snap a couple shots during the ceremony of petals scattered in the aisle. Take that, church rules!

 Flower Power: A Wedding Day Dream Realized
 Flower Power: A Wedding Day Dream Realized
And of course, the evening wouldn’t have been complete without a few shots of the bride herself in a shower of flowers.
 Flower Power: A Wedding Day Dream Realized
 Flower Power: A Wedding Day Dream Realized
 Flower Power: A Wedding Day Dream Realized
 Flower Power: A Wedding Day Dream Realized
Did your photographer surprise you by showing up with props or having creative ideas you never would have expected? Do you plan to use flower petals on your wedding day?

(Photo Credits: Alex Neumann Photography)

Check out Get Married’s feature on this beautiful trend in weddings! Watch Video!

August 24, 2010 by Bicoastal_Bride | Filed under: Floral & Decor,Wedding Photos & Video | 1 Comment
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Born to be Mrs. Beever
Why is this the most important recap?  Because next to the dress, it has to do with the one thing the bride will have on her almost the entire day – her bouquet!  That little beloved beauty typically means a lot to most brides.  But it also coincides with another huge aspect of your decor and style for the day – all the florals…whether silk or real, they are a huge part of most weddings.  So this the recap of all of my amazing florals and the lessons I learned going through this process of selecting, designing, and most importantly carrying or wearing the florals on my wedding day.  Before I start with the info, I just wanted to post the only photo I have of my florist on the wedding day since she was just so incredibly amazing!  She was super affordable, super creative, super accommodating and nice and super stealth like!  On the day of the wedding, she was in and out setting everything up, dropping off bouquets and then off for the day.
As a matter of fact, I didn’t even get to thank her on the day of the wedding.  So my first tip begins there:
TIP # 1: Be sure to ask your florist to personally deliver your bouquet(s) to you on the day of the wedding.  That way he/she gets to see your reaction (hopefully a good one) and you get to thank her/him in person.  This is Allison of Flower Allie…USE HER if you are in the So Cal area!  You will not be disappointed.
 Wed Recap: The most important one

*  My bouquet
Consisted of dark reds and burgundys:  Black Magic Roses, Red Tulips, Mokara orchids, Burgundy Cymbidium orchids, Burgundy Dahlias, Small spray and red roses.  It held up really well.

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I gave my florist a small blue brooch to add to the bouquet as my something blue which was Mr Fix It’s mother’s brooch.  She passed away when she was only 49 so this was very special to me to incorporate.
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I did *NOT* want any greens or berries in my bouquet.  I was adamant about that.  And I wanted a very different type of ribbon wrap…Allison said another local florist uses this wrap all the time.  I loved the way the ivory ribbon was all gathered around the bottom of the bouquet.
TIP #2: Allison asked me to bring her some of the fabric from my wedding gown after my seamstress had hemmed it.  She was going to use it to create the ribbon wrap.  Unfortunately I forgot to bring it to her but this is a great tip for fellow brides.
TIP #3: Be sure to discuss the height and weight and shape of your bouquet with your florist.  For as thorough as I was, I didn’t think about these issues when we were discussing the bouquet.  As much as I loved this bouquet on the wedding day, it was honestly just way too damn heavy!  I mean, look at it in this photo – it covers almost my entire torso from waist to the top of my bust!  (Note that this was totally not Allison’s fault…something I should have considered when we just kept adding flowers to the arrangement!)
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Born to be Mrs. Beever

As cliche and stereotypical as it is, every post wedding bride will remind others that the day really does go by way too fast.  Even though Mr Fix It and I took a few moments during the cocktail hour to walk into the reception area first before our guests so we could see everything all set up, I still missed seeing half of the details and elements of our decor and venue that I was excited about and had spent so much time on.

Some of the things that I never saw on our actual wedding day:

Our gift table – hell, for all I know, someone could have made off with all the gifts and I never would have known anyone even brought anything for us!

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Our memorial table – this truly disappointed me that I didn’t get to see this because our photographer didn’t even get a shot of it and I had purchased personalized vases and had set out a poem and digital frame with scrolling photos of all of our closest loved ones who had passed on.  Even though it was set up right in the middle of the cocktail area, I didn’t think to go stop and look at it and none of my bridesmaids or family mentioned it to me.  Thankfully, I was able to capture an image from the raw footage our videographer shot so I have at least have this…the rest of these images are of the elements that were on the table:

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August 20, 2010 by Born to be Mrs. Beever | Filed under: All the rest,Floral & Decor | 1 Comment
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Bicoastal_Bride

Even though our ceremony wasn’t without a couple mishaps – the processional starting while I was in the restroom and the priest skipping over my sister’s reading – it was still beautiful, both in the words we spoke and the décor that filled the church.

Here, a quick glimpse into Saint Paschal Baylon, decorated in our signature “less is more” style.

 Ceremony Design & Decor
Our DIY tissue packets were a hit with guests and incredibly easy to make. A couple months before the wedding, we picked up a box of tissue packets and placed an order for custom business cards, each featuring a different shot of us on the front and back. Once they arrived, we taped one photo to each pack, alternating as we went.

Then, to display them on the big day, we selected a basket at Michaels and tied plastic dollar-store grape bunches to each side. Fun and simple! Plus, our coordinator expertly thought to place the leftovers in the women’s restroom during the reception.

 Ceremony Design & Decor
A custom blowup of our favorite engagement photo, courtesy of Damien Smith Photography, greeted guests from a cloth-draped easel at the entrance to the aisle. Our coordinator later moved the photo to the reception site to display throughout the evening, as well.
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heather_n_will

I am almost completely finished with my favors! Whew! With only 19 days to go, I am trying to stay calm and focused. My attempt to take it all one step at a time is a practice in redundancy. I freak out, remind myself not to freak out and then do a little more work towards the end goal… wash, rinse, repeat. This too shall pass. I am just glad that I started as far out from my date as I did. I can’t imagine combining the whole year’s work down into 6 months or less. To all of you divas that do… I salute you; you are my personal s’heros. Now, down to brass tacks.
The latest DIY project is my honey jar favors. I purchased the tiny quilted jars from my local grocery store in the canning aisle. At 12 for $7.00, they were a bargin. Using a family friend as our honey connection (he has kept bees for around 30 years) was another win for our finances. To top it off, the hemp I used for tying, the tags for labeling and the fabric to top the jars were all bought at Wal-Mart for next to nothing!!  In the end, 100+ jars of local honey to be used as favors/placecards = $70.00. You just have to love that!
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August 17, 2010 by heather_n_will | Filed under: DIY Weddings,Floral & Decor,Wedding Gifts & Favors | 4 Comments
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Fri

Elizabeth Gilbert’s book “Eat, Pray, Love” now bears the honor of having Julia Roberts play the leading character in the motion picture adaptation, bearing the same title.  Filled with seductive landscapes, delicious food and gorgeous men, the movie takes us on a journey to New York, Italy, India and Bali.  Along for the ride is my imagination, for the perfect bohemian chic wedding.

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Have a delicious, Spiritually-fulfilling and romantic week:-)

August 16, 2010 by Fri | Filed under: Entertainment,Floral & Decor | 0 Comments
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heather_n_will

I love my reception venue. Really I do. There are only two things that I wish I could change. I posted about the first of those here. Well, my second issue is the bathrooms. Just look.
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Ok, I know it could be worse. I also know that I can’t spend the amount of money I know I want to that could make an actual difference in there. (Can you say contractor, drywall, primer, paint, fabric, etc.?) But, I can add just a few small things to increase my guests’ comfort.
I am planning on putting a floral arrangement along with a lovely candle and a “necessities basket” in both the men’s and ladies’ rooms. In my “necessities basket” one will find lovely things like nice hand soaps and lotions, light first aid stuff (band-aids, neosporin, aspirin, etc.), body spray and maybe even some sample size deoderants… just in case.
I purchased my baskets the other day from World Market, a place that I L.O.V.E.  If you have never been to one or do not have one close, I highly suggest checking it out online. Fabulousness from all over the world, literally. Example? Check out these baskets that look like the big sister to the ones I bought for my bathrooms!!!
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Can you guys think of any other low cost ideas for fixing up a cruddy restroom? Are you going to (or did you) provide something special for your guests in that area?

August 12, 2010 by heather_n_will | Filed under: DIY Weddings,Floral & Decor | 2 Comments
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We did it!! After a year of planning, we pulled it off and I love every single moment of it!

Attached is a link to our same day edit video. We played this on the day of the wedding towards the end of the night before the dancing so that our guests could see a highlight reel of the day. it was nice especially for those who couldn’t make the ceremony.

Beverly & Quang [SDE] from RF Productions on Vimeo.

And here are some photos: (just click the photo)
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I will write a recap post soon and blog my step by steps from begining to end. I am definitely suffering from wedding withdrawal.

Enjoy!

August 9, 2010 by bebe82 | Filed under: All the rest,Ceremony and Vows,Entertainment,Fashion, Jewelry & Runway,Floral & Decor,Wedding Photos & Video | 2 Comments
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I decided to start a blog after stumbling upon a blog that had a lot of DIY wedding ideas. I figured if someone else’s blog could help me maybe mine could help someone else. I am in the beginning phases of wedding planning and have completely overwhelmed myself. My wedding isn’t until 6/23/2012 (approximate date) so I know that gives me more than enough time to plan, but I want it to be perfect and I want it to be inexpensive (I hate the word cheap when it comes to weddings). My fiancé and I have known each other for about 4 years, and we got engaged last month (6/21/10). It was not a complete surprise as we have known all along that we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together, but I was a shock when it happened, so much so that I did not even realize he was proposing to me and it took me a second to respond. So now we are engaged and all of our family knows, so as everyone that is close to me has said, I have opened the flood gates of wedding planning.

I am still in the beginning stages but we have narrowed down a few things. Our wedding colors are purple white and black. I love hydrangeas, orchids and roses which can all be purple so the flowers made my color decision for me. We also have decided to make the wedding our own. We know that parents’ friends and family always have an opinion but we said that we want people to walk into our wedding and for it to totally reflect our personalities. He has also requested a candy buffet, which I am really excited about. I attended a bridal expo and they said they cost between $1000-1500. Not with this budget savvy bride! That is my first DIY research project and I will let you all know what I find.

August 5, 2010 by soon2bmrsgarcia | Filed under: All the rest,Catering & Food,DIY Weddings,Floral & Decor | 2 Comments
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