On Sundays, my sister and her hubby come over for dinner. This Sunday she came alone though because her hubby was at the TN Titans game for his birthday. {They actually won too!!!!!}
My sister and I began looking at wedding things online. {I don't even know how it started either.} After looking at several things, she suggested that we change our date, which - may I remind you - isn't even set in stone yet. Oh yes. She wants us to move it up...to next year. I about nearly passed out. I'd have to start making serious decisions soon - like pick a Church. {which is a hugh a set of drama in and of itself anyway!} I quickly decided that moving up the date would NOT be a good idea.
Apparently, my subconcious didn't like my decision. How do I know this? Because, Sunday night, I dreamt about getting married. I dreamt up my entire rehearsal. Luckily, everyone paid attention and was cooperative in my dream. {hopefully that'll really happen on the big day too} But, as I walked down the aisle at the rehearsal, I was panicking. Not the "I don't want to do this anymore" panic, but the "I can't believe this is happening; is everything going smoothly?" type of panic.
Please, wedding gods, don't let this actually happen to me. I want to enjoy my day. I don't want to be a panicked mess!

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Good luck deciding about your date. It was a tough choice for me, too, because on the one hand, I wanted to give myself enough time to plan a long-distance wedding, but on the other, I felt too excited to wait more than about a year from the time of my engagement. In total, I’ll have had 14 months to plan by the time next June rolls around.
I’ve also had a few dreams like yours, including some where things were really not going well at all. But when the day comes, I hope I'll be able to relax, knowing I really did all I could, and that some things are just out of my control. (At least that’s what I’m telling myself now, anyway!)

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