Ok, I admit it, some guys are dogs, and perhaps you even ran into a few before you found the love of your life. While meeting the dogman was part of your history, unfortunately for your fiance, your past can effect his present. Your fiance must be fantastic right, after all you're about to say "I Do", but at one time or another, he will get tarred by the same brush as your ex, even though he is the best thing that ever happened to you. Sometimes he will have done nothing, but his harmles actions, will be associated with something the dog did, and bingo, off kicks the fights. Its classic !
So here's my advice, judge everything your man does on his merit, on his character, not on whats happened to you in the past. Live for the now, and for your relationship as a couple. Jumping to your own conclusions is easy to do, but its not the best thing to do. Getting yourself out of a pile of doo-do, is far more difficlt than jumping into it in the first place. So please, be good, to your man, and never judge too quickly.
What you have to understand is that beneath all the joy of your wedding, what your man really wants to know is how much is this going to cost me, and how is that going to effect our financial future. While you are caught up in the moment, and your emotions, I bet you he is being far more practical. So if you don't get all the support you hoped for from him over every decision you make, just step back a moment, and try to understand that while men may not be free with their emotions, free is exacty how they want to get every item on your wedding planing list.

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I have been married since 2001, and in my line of work, have seen countless brides (other than the one I married), so I have a little insight about what they expect vs what I guy can actually give. Almost every bride-to-be morphs into a hyper emotional alter ego of herself throughout the planning process, while a groom-to-be, remains pretty much the guy he's always been. So if you thought your groom was unemotional before your engagement, chances are, you'll view him as a pre-wedding zombie now. With the help of some writers, and comedians, who are far more talented that me, I hope to help all the brides out there, get inside a guys minds, and regain a little perspective, or just help you figure out why he's acting, or not acting, as you would like.

